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Old 14-05-2019, 12:32 PM
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The “deny it” stance, no matter what, could possibly be because of legal advice given to her Spindle so even if faced with evidence she may still refuse to admit it.
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Old 14-05-2019, 01:47 PM
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Quite.

And if Spindle knows she did, what use is getting it from her. It's happened. Let it go.

There has been plenty of good advice here that you should take.

I'm not sure having shared passwords make a jot of different, and even if legally it might be ok (I'm still not sure it is), I don't think it really portrays anyone that well that they have to check their partners messages (I realise she is far more in the wrong).
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Quite.

And if Spindle knows she did, what use is getting it from her. It's happened. Let it go.

There has been plenty of good advice here that you should take.

I'm not sure having shared passwords make a jot of different, and even if legally it might be ok (I'm still not sure it is), I don't think it really portrays anyone that well that they have to check their partners messages (I realise she is far more in the wrong).
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The “deny it” stance, no matter what, could possibly be because of legal advice given to her Spindle so even if faced with evidence she may still refuse to admit it.
Whether or not she has lied makes zit-all difference legally. So it would be nonsensical if she had legal advice to deny it.
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...And if Spindle knows she did, what use is getting it from her. It's happened. Let it go....
The sensible advice of course (and should certainly be followed in the case of young kids). But I can bloody understand the less mature approach of some short term satisfaction.
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Old 15-05-2019, 10:59 AM
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Old 15-05-2019, 11:26 AM
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Whether or not she has lied makes zit-all difference legally. So it would be nonsensical if she had legal advice to deny it.
Is that wholly true? Not the case here but if someone were contesting a divorce, for example, and they had been accused of adultery would they not deny it, be advised to deny it, even if correct?
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Is something written in private on social media counted as being unfaithful even if the content is confirming certain things? Can she not just turn around and say it was all fantasy stuff and messing around with a colleague at work? I wonder what constitutes hard proof and actual adultery in the eyes of a court.
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Is that wholly true? Not the case here but if someone were contesting a divorce, for example, and they had been accused of adultery would they not deny it, be advised to deny it, even if correct?
You wouldn't go down the route of adultery if you had no proof or no admittance, because it's just a question posed to the defendant "did you or didn't you?" and one tick is all it takes to throw it out. That's why most adultery cases go down the route of unreasonable behaviour citing improper conduct with another.
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Old 15-05-2019, 01:48 PM
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Which in your case is irrelevant as you are divorced.

I cannot see anything that gives you closure in fact it comes across like as soon as the wound starts to heal a bit you start picking it again.
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Is that wholly true? Not the case here but if someone were contesting a divorce, for example, and they had been accused of adultery would they not deny it, be advised to deny it, even if correct?
But we are not talking about contested divorce - at least I would hope not because that makes absolutely no sense at all and Maz's reply was in that context.

You are however wrong even in a contested divorce - if a lawyer knows his client is lying then he cannot continue to represent him/her and you would never advise your client to lie.
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But we are not talking about contested divorce - at least I would hope not because that makes absolutely no sense at all and Maz's reply was in that context.

You are however wrong even in a contested divorce - if a lawyer knows his client is lying then he cannot continue to represent him/her and you would never advise your client to lie.
Ta. I do like a bit of correction. Not quite sure where I got that idea from and have obviously got confuddled with something else I think I may have read a while back and to do with a reason to 'deny adultery'
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Which in your case is irrelevant as you are divorced.

I cannot see anything that gives you closure in fact it comes across like as soon as the wound starts to heal a bit you start picking it again.
Yeah, but no. You assume far too much. According to your logic I'm in the same place as the day I discovered the whole thing.
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