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Old 10-06-2021, 04:47 PM
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I recall visiting the local youth offending team back in 2017 to discuss local issues in what was a very deprived area. I was asked what was the most offensives caused by adolescent youth. I assumed given the area it was criminal damage, theft, burgeries, drugs or alcohol related etc and was genuinely shocked to be informed it was sex related offenses-specifically cohesion and them spreading of pics, cohesion into sex, underage sex etc. Wuite staggering really.
This is another point. I can only speak for boys, but I know that its not uncommon for girls nudes get spread around and traded like fvcking Pokemon cards.
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I've been thinking the same. Also, certainly when I was at school, there seemed to be more pupil self regulation than there appears now. If a boy sexually assaulted a girl in school he would have been physically assaulted by the other boys. It wasn't seen as acceptable behaviour by the children and was quite rare. Maybe that was just my school, who knows.
Don't forget that the OP went to school with Fred West who was his dad and also his brother.
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Old 10-06-2021, 04:53 PM
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Don't think much is changed just some people seem more shocked nowadays,. Also got to say if this is happening at house parties is it a school problem?
I'm nearly 20 years younger than you and no way was this kind of stuff common when I was at school. OP seems to be suggesting that kids flashing each other was a normal thing?!
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Old 10-06-2021, 05:05 PM
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This is another point. I can only speak for boys, but I know that its not uncommon for girls nudes get spread around and traded like fvcking Pokemon cards.
god thats horrific.
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Absolutely to that first paragraph. I cant speak for older generations, but in my generation, when we were 12-15 years old and a news story about a female teacher rapist came out, itd always be omg so lucky, wish that was me. Its a bizzare phenomenon, which probably undermines the severity of underage male rape victims.
There's a big difference between fantasy and reality. The reality, is humilating, degrading and confusing, because it's not sexy or arousing, it about them not you. It's having control taken away from you, and being unable to do anything about it.
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EDIT sorry about the spelling error in the title, oh well.

TBF. The whole title is wrong. What are schools supposed to do about activity happening outside school?
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Old 10-06-2021, 08:08 PM
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Old 10-06-2021, 08:37 PM
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Why were piles of jazz mags left in bushes? Bigger mystery than crop circles.
I often found hedge open a curious phenomena. Until thought about how uptight people could be. I suspect people were buying it wanting themselves silly, and dumping them because they were either ashamed of to scared to being found with them.

Probably older married guys. Some might have been young kids mixing about, but they weren't exactly cheap. Living out on the edge of the countryside it wasn't entirely rare to find stands of open mags in the woods and secluded places.

Our school has three sets of woodland adjacent to it, and on a Monday you'd often find mags in the woods. There were three or four occasions when we had people exposing themselves to the tennis / netball courts ( which were right next to a wooded path. Always it seems when it was full of girls.
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Old 10-06-2021, 08:40 PM
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Why would they expose themselves to an empty court?
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Old 10-06-2021, 08:49 PM
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As uncle to a niece who'll turn 13 in a couple of months, and another who'll be ten in the autumn, this is pretty concerning to me. Just what sort of sexual culture will these girls be growing up into?

What's difficult to comprehend is just how different it is from when I was at school 30 years ago. There was nothing like the incidence that report claims. I remember a couple of special assemblies for boys where, for unspecified reasons, we were essentially told not to grope girls, but that was it.

And I don't think that was because the school didn't know about or didn't react to other stuff, I genuinely think there was nothing like the problem compared to today. And my school was a shit comprehensive, so manners and behaviour was a long way from ideal. But if girls today are as much victim as the report states, there must be lots of perpetrators, not a small handful of offenders; and if there were lots of sexual predators at my school, I'm pretty sure everyone would've known.

That said, I'm not sure about laying all the blame on schools here. What really can they do if kids misbehave in any way out of school? That's parental responsibility, surely. The schools should teach sexual issues, but if a boy bombards a girl with texts at 10pm, or assaults her at a house party, how is it the school's responsibility?
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Old 10-06-2021, 08:56 PM
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I think a lot of us were quite scared of girls. Girls in my second school tended to go out with someone older, often a squaddie or at least someone with a car.
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Now, I do wonder what school these people went to, but they seem to think that this adolescent sex stuff is brand new. I went to school in the 80's and 100% this was exactly the same, if not worse, than what they are saying now. The only difference is that nobody had a smart phone and the internet so the naked selfies would be flashing I guess, and the porno a good old copy of Razzle.

I can only assume from this that poor Chief inspector Amanda Spielman didn't get fingerbanged at a school disco.

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You are talking about children being harassed, sexually assaulted and raped and often their lives destroyed (not adolescent sex stuff). And you think this is an appropriate post? C*nt.
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This is another point. I can only speak for boys, but I know that its not uncommon for girls nudes get spread around and traded like fvcking Pokemon cards.
Sad but true. I think they are persuaded to send something to a boy they are keen on and who they think likes them, only to find they are forwarded to mates/ sent around the school, or at least threatened to in order to destroy their reputation/humilate them. Often the threat is used for sexual persuasion.

What isn't highlighted is that if pics are circulated the humiliation can lead to suicide, self harming etc.

Sexual persuasion is also used to get girls hanging around gangs to be accepted into the group, be it as an initiation process or just part of the "services" provided for make members.
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Don't forget that the OP went to school with Fred West who was his dad and also his brother.


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I'm nearly 20 years younger than you and no way was this kind of stuff common when I was at school. OP seems to be suggesting that kids flashing each other was a normal thing?!
I wouldn't call it normal, but there were a lot of guys in my year group who would regularly have their tackle out, for laughs, and plenty of girls who enjoyed that sort of thing.
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I wouldn't call it normal, but there were a lot of guys in my year group who would regularly have their tackle out, for laughs, and plenty of girls who enjoyed that sort of thing.
That was not acceptable behaviour at my school, not in the slightest.
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And, presumably, plenty who did not. Which is surely the point.
And plenty of blokes who thought the girls enjoyed it, but were wrong.
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