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Old 11-06-2021, 08:02 AM
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And plenty of blokes who thought the girls enjoyed it, but were wrong.
I left it unsaid that Spindle sounds like he was one of those blokes, yes. Sort of explains the OP.
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Old 11-06-2021, 08:44 AM
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I think a lot of the language men use around this issue underplays it as well, and tries to make it slightly humorous.

What we are talking about is criminal behaviour that is sexual harassment, sexual assualt and rape. Behaviour that has a profound and devestating impact on children's lives and sadly in many cases throughout their life.

It's all part of a very weird and troubling psyche. It's like the thread we had on here a while back about men in their 20s and upwards going with children at the age of 16 and 17 etc. All kinds of excuses were given, along with the tired old posts that it was different in their day. No it wasn't actually. And what psychologists and care providers are doing now is shifting the age to 25 for a lot of people in terms of being young and vulnerable, as they know there isn't just a cut off at 18.

I think deep down a lot of men, and let's face it, it is is men on here trying to belittle it all, have done things they know were wrong. And rather than face that fact and try and change things going forward, they try and deflect from the seriousness of it.

There is also clearly an underlying resentment among some men that they were failures with women and rather than try and deal with that in a way that is sensitive to them and ways that could change things for people going forward to make them more confident in a postive way they lash out at women, and sadly even girls.
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Old 11-06-2021, 08:54 AM
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Why would they expose themselves to an empty court?
Lol - No it'd typically been when the girls were playing tennis or netball.
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Old 11-06-2021, 09:10 AM
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Some of the things on the list, are probably part of 'kids being dicks' or just being kids. Things like showing off porno mags to people, inappropriate comments etc and I get that a part of childhood in your teens is an awakening of sexuality.

However the majority of things on that list are actual sex crimes, that are the normal experience of teens in school, largely committed against girls by boys - who probably don't know better.

The schools probably could do more and do better, definitely, but f**k me what are parents teaching their kids (and I've got a pretty good idea that in a lot of cases its 'f**k all' about things like consent, responsibility, self control and how actions have consequences).

I wonder how much of the 'boys will be boys', would be acceptable justification when their 'precious' son is getting the same treatment in a young offenders institute after being sent there for committing a sex crime against a class mate.
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Old 11-06-2021, 09:40 AM
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I wouldn't call it normal, but there were a lot of guys in my year group who would regularly have their tackle out, for laughs, and plenty of girls who enjoyed that sort of thing.
Suddenly, everything started making sense.....
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Old 11-06-2021, 09:58 AM
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I wonder how much of the 'boys will be boys', would be acceptable justification when their 'precious' son is getting the same treatment in a young offenders institute after being sent there for committing a sex crime against a class mate.
Yes there are quite a lot of men who try to trivialise sexual assault against girls and women but if it came to a man sexually assaulting another man they would suddenly have a very different outlook.
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Old 11-06-2021, 11:08 AM
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Yes it was, and consequently I struggled quite a bit in life from the experience of being sexually assaulted as did several friend and normalizing it because 'it happened to everyone'.

My first real sexual experience was being molested by older girls (I was 11 they were 15) and it caused all manner of problems in my youth, that I masked with drug and alcohol abuse. It affected my early relationships and probably was a factor in suffering from depression all my adult life.

So yeah, it was a ******* problem then, and us still a problem.
Sorry to read this dogstar. I am also amazed that there is not one post showing empathy to a BBS’er revealing a horrible episode. Just a couple saying it was their fantasy. If we on here can’t even separate fantasy and reality, can we really expect kids to?
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Old 11-06-2021, 11:11 AM
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I have an 8 year old daughter. I am very worried about the next 10 years or so because I'm old and out of touch with what goes on with all sorts of things, not just this. I know what went on when I was her age, but it's different now.

In 10 years time when I may start to relax about my daughter, my son, currently 3, will be 13 and presumably we go again from the opposite angle!! Will have to see how we get on over the next 15 years
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Old 11-06-2021, 02:09 PM
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I have an 8 year old daughter. I am very worried about the next 10 years or so because I'm old and out of touch with what goes on with all sorts of things, not just this. I know what went on when I was her age, but it's different now.

In 10 years time when I may start to relax about my daughter, my son, currently 3, will be 13 and presumably we go again from the opposite angle!! Will have to see how we get on over the next 15 years
I'd say my 3 daughters aged 38, 36 and 26 faired a lot better than women of my generation....My sisters for instance... Which was peak Benny Hill, Kenny Everett, and on the plus side Woodstock. So I'll be amazed if my granddaughters fair worse than previous generations. As for the Girls my 22 year old son brings home... they are extremely confident young women. Don't seem to suffer effects from mass misogyny.

The proof is in the outcome... So I'd say today's women are treated much much better than the vast majority of previous generations. Long may that continue.
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^^^Posted from Saudi Arabia where the hero is campaigning for women's rights and against forced paedo marriages. He's on point and willing to actually fight for what he believes in unlike a modern woke keyboard internet twat in his bedroom. Rock on Paulo
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